The Myth of “Forced Conversions”
INDIA UCAN Commentary – ‘Forced Conversion A Myth’
October 21, 2008
BETTIAH, India (UCAN) — Allegations by Hindu radicals that Christians
forcibly convert poor Hindus is a myth, says a 50-year-old Hindu-Brahmin
convert to Catholicism.
Christians form barely 2.3 percent of India’s 1.02 billion people, and they
would not dare forcibly convert a Hindu, says Prakash Chand Dubey, who had
to wait 26 years to become a Catholic. More than 80 percent of India’s
people are Hindus.
Dubey, who stays in Bettiah, in the eastern Indian state of Bihar, credits
an American Jesuit missioner for bringing him closer to Jesus. The biggest
hurdle in becoming a Catholic, in fact, was objections by some Catholic
priests. Dubey says he still cannot understand why they delayed his request
for baptism.
In this commentary for UCA News, he explains why and how he became a
Catholic and accuses Hindu extremists of using false propaganda to make
Hindus hate Christians.
The commentary follows:
Pro-Hindu parties control several states in India now. Ironically,
fundamentalist Hindus prop up the myth of forced conversion in these states.
Orissa and Karnataka are the classic examples where such allegations have
triggered violence.
Scores of Christians have been brutally murdered. The stark apathy of the
state security forces has shockingly exacerbated Christians’ helplessness
and fueled a cult of impunity among marauding hordes of Hindu extremists.
I firmly believe the Hindu extremists rake up the issue of forced conversion
for two reasons. First, it helps them sway simple Hindus to suspect and
gradually despise Christians as the foes of Hinduism. Second, the conversion
bogey offers the Hindu radicals a strong tool to woo rich and devout Hindu
industrialists and traders from all over India. These business people
contribute billions of rupees to defend Hinduism against the alleged
Christian onslaught. Available cogent statistics indicate Hindu radical
outfits such as Bajrang Dal (party of the strong and stout) and Vishwa Hindu
Parishad (world Hindu council) wangle more than 100 billion rupees (US$2.04
billion) annually from mesmerized Hindus.
I can firmly affirm that forced conversion is a myth, because I was a
convert to Christianity, barely 11 years ago. I have crossed 50 years and
believe my conversion was the work of the Lord, not of any human being. It
is the same with all who have chosen Lord Jesus as their savior.
I solemnly affirm that none ever even tried to cajole (what to talk of
forcing?) me to become a Christian. I discern force or inducement cannot
convert anyone. Rather it is a spontaneous call that only the Lord alone
decides. No doubt, certain individuals (priests and nuns) who authentically
live the Gospel message do play a catalytic role to help people to respond
to the call of the Holy Spirit to come to the Christ’s embrace.
This is what happened with me. An American Jesuit, the late Father Joseph
O’Brien, played this catalytic role in my conversion. However, the priest
never even whispered to me to accept Christianity. I call this incredible,
because many including some other priests, who knew our relationship and my
growing inclination toward Lord Jesus, suspected the American Jesuit used to
give me money.
Such suspicion had cropped up because Father O’Brien was reputed for helping
thousands of refugees from Bangladesh settle in northern Bihar. He used to
get funds from his family and friends in the United States for the purpose.
However, the priest had never told any refugee to become Christian. I know
hundreds of refugees who received help from the American Jesuit. But none of
them is a Christian.
In my case, however, the Jesuit was my bridge to Jesus. He was my class
teacher in the ninth grade in Bettiah’s Khrist Raja (Christ the king) High
School in 1971. I had approached him for coaching in English, since I came
from a semi-literate family where English was alien. Father O’Brien readily
agreed to help. He taught me the language for almost four years even after
he retired from the school.
The priest’s selfless, simple and prayerful life and acts of generosity
immensely touched me. I managed to get a Hindi Bible and prayed with it.
Gradually, the Lord began to reveal his graces and love to me.
After my 10th grade I mustered the courage to tell Father O’Brien I yearned
to become a Catholic. He smiled but simply said to wait and keep on praying.
I left my hometown and stayed at various places to carry on my studies. I
traveled to Europe and Africa for my doctoral works and received my
doctorate in 1990. On my return to Bettiah, I would visit the priest every
day, and I repeated my request. But he still counseled me to wait some more.
I had virtually given up the hope for baptism when suddenly the Jesuit told
me in October 1997 that if I wished, I could receive baptism. On Oct. 12
that year, an Indian Jesuit baptized me. Three days later the American
Jesuit died at the age of 86.
A day after my baptism and two days before his death, Father O’Brien
divulged to me that he had been seeking permission for my baptism since
1974, but his superiors always declined. His age had probably prevailed upon
his superiors eventually to his request. However, I take the delay as the
work of the Holy Spirit.
My conversion journey began in 1971 but concluded more than 25 years later
in 1997. I still do not know why Church leaders relentlessly declined my
request for baptism. Meanwhile, I was blessed with a wife and two children.
My conversion exposes the myth of forced conversion. In fact, the Indian
Church seems to be reluctant to even proclaim the Gospel among people of
other faiths. This is especially so after foreign missioners passed on the
Church’s leadership to Indians.
The Church spotlight has turned to eradication of illiteracy and empowerment
of the weak and poor. The Church is more focused on project-oriented
programs and ensures its work does not have even a whiff of proselytization.
Against such a backdrop, I wonder why Hindu extremists accuse the Church of
forced conversion.
Most priests and nuns in my region do not accept me as an integral part of
the Church, although I have cordial relations with most. Some priests and
nuns who trust my faith in Jesus have confided to me that their colleagues
are skeptical about my faith. This is the most haunting challenge for me.
However, this has not wilted my faith. I laugh when I hear such things about
my faith. Of course, my laughter has a mix of despair and resentment.
Nevertheless, this helps me snuggle to the Lord more fervently through
prayers and total surrender. I don’t worry what others think about me. My
only concern is that the Lord should not suspect my faith. I am grateful to
the Lord for he manifests his trust in me through manifold graces.
Another major challenge stems from my Hindu friends and relatives. I have
not suffered any persecution at their hands, but they do sometimes taunt me
bitterly under the garb of jokes. I don’t take umbrage because I know they
have no inkling of the unique journey of my conversion.
I believe my conversion is a call from Jesus, otherwise it would not have
happened amid suspicious Catholic priests. My conversion is a special gift
from the Lord which even Catholic priests envy. This also implies that I am
bound to suffer. As a devotee of Jesus, I have to carry my cross. However, I
am convinced the Lord will eventually vindicate my faith.
